Apr 27A Poisoned Nostalgia: Childhood Trauma of LGBTQ+Today I am packing up to hit the road to visit my parents in the small town of my childhood. This town has been the family home for at least six generations, since before it was even incorporated under the name it now bears. It is also a place of…LGBTQ3 min read
Apr 22Changing Minds: Resisting Shame, Embracing EmpathyIn a recent social media post, I engaged with a commenter after they made some wildly uninformed and outright false statements about LGBTQ+ people in general and bisexuality in particular. …LGBTQ4 min read
Apr 18Beyond Bullying: Naming Oppression For What It IsI’ve come to dislike the term “bully”. Because of its common association with the playground antics of children, the seriousness of its impact and harm is often understated or lost. Whether addressing genuinely harmful mistreatment of a child by another or naming similar dynamics among adults, we seem conditioned to…LGBTQ3 min read
Apr 12Welcome Is Not EnoughRecently, while advocating for Christian churches to do the hard work to make their communities equitable and safe, a friend gently chided me to acknowledge all the good that was happening. They asserted: “I see a lot of churches working really hard to welcome everyone!” On one hand, they are…LGBTQ3 min read
Apr 8“Should Straight Actors Play LGBTQ+ Roles?” Ask Me AnythingIn my last “Ask Me Anything” column, I answer a question about the importance of LGBTQ+ representation in media. Almost immediately the same follow-up question came in from a lot people. So, in something of a “Part 2”, today’s column will answer this contentious question: “Should straight and/or cisgender actors…LGBTQ4 min read
Apr 6Working For Change In A Post-Truth WorldIn our current social and political climate, it is all too familiar to see so many new efforts to limit the freedom of LGBTQ+ folks and even penalize those who seek to support them. This is especially true in the US for the transgender community. At last count, there were…LGBTQ3 min read
Apr 4Being LGBTQ+ In A Warzone (& Other Inequities)In the days following “The Slap Heard Around The World”, with the topic dominating every corner of the social media world, one repeated comment kept catching my eye. It was always a variation of this sentiment: “Can we please focus on people suffering from real violence? …LGBTQ3 min read
Mar 30Love Should Do No Harm: When Belief Trumps Love In ChristianityThis past week, a friend shared this quote on socials:LGBTQ4 min read
Mar 28Imperfect Victims & Problematic Heroes: Breaking the Binary of “Good vs. Evil”Ten years ago, my friend, Matt, was executed by the state of Mississippi for a murder I do not believe he committed. Before his state-sanctioned murder, I was heavily involved in advocacy on his behalf, seeking any means to have his execution stayed and his case reopened. …Justice5 min read
Mar 25“Why is LGBTQ+ Representation In The Media Important?” Ask Me AnythingIn this week’s Ask Me Anything the question is another important one. While less personal than our previous questions, it touches on something that impacts all of us in a way that we are unlikely to even be fully aware of. I am not an expert in this particular field…LGBTQ4 min read