The Dark Side Of Coming Out

(digital art by Jamie Arpin-Ricci)

It recently dawned on me that I would be spending this year’s National Coming Out Day in the small town where I first came out 30 years earlier. Given it is a place linked to all sorts of trauma related to being queer, the topic of coming out has been occupying center stage in my thoughts of late, for better and for worse.

The fact is, of course, that “coming out” isn’t just one thing. It isn’t experienced by…

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Jamie Arpin-Ricci is a bisexual author & activist with more than 25 years experience living at the intersection of faith, sexuality, and justice.

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Jamie Arpin-Ricci

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Jamie Arpin-Ricci is a bisexual author & activist with more than 25 years experience living at the intersection of faith, sexuality, and justice.

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